Contacting Her After The First Date
So you went on your first date and everything went great. She was hot, she laughed at your jokes. Now what do you do? Obviously you want to make a "home run", but you need to slow down. The last thing you want to do is scare that married lady away forever. This is your chance to live your fantasy of being with a hot married woman.
- Send her "it was great meeting you", type of email or text message.
- If you want to call her, then wait at least 2 days to call her. Do not call the very next day it looks cheesy, trust me on that.
- When you do call after the 2nd or 3rd day I recommend keeping the conversation short but sweet and memorable.
- Before you make "the call", have a plan of attack ( things to talk about, what you will say etc..)
- Make the call in a quiet room or at home, do not call her on your cell phone or while you're driving. This makes her look unimportant to you, so make sure it looks like you made time to call her. Remember women like to feel "special", they like romance and attention so give it to them.
- Make sure to sound positive on the phone, no one likes a grump.
- If you call her and get her answering machine leave your name and number.
- Don't continue to call back after you have left the 1 message with your phone number. If she wants to contact you then she will, if she doesn't call back then move on to the next married woman.
- Once you reach her on the phone then plan your second date, maybe dinner and a nice walk in a park. Think of somewhere that you can set the "mood" and take it from there.
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